borderline personality, borderline personality disorder, relationship, personality disorder, emotional abuse

Borderline Personality Relationships

Borderline Personality Relationships Are you in a relationship with a person with Borderline Personality Disorder? Have you had intense passion and intimate feelings for a person with high highs and low lows? Does this sound familiar: obsessing about him/her, yet no matter what you do, you can’t seem please the…
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Meditation to Strengthen Relationship

Meditation to Strengthen Relationship A recent study at Emory University found that meditation improves people’s ability to read other’s emotions, thus improving their relationships. Meditation can be a useful tool for strengthening relationships as it can help with: Improving communication: It can increase awareness of your own thoughts and feelings,…
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relationship, Couples Therapy, Life Coach, marriage counseling, Relation Therapy, Relationship Therapy

Reignite Intimacy in your relationship

Most couples have resentments that they are not even aware of which destroy the intimacy in their  relationship. In working with couples for 22 years in Los Angeles, I find that they become deadened to each other and the relationship over the years if they don’t put some effort into…
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AVOIDING CONFLICT,abusive relationships, anger, couples communication, couples counseling, Life Coach Los Angeles, Therapist Los Angeles, troubled relationships

Conflict Avoiding resulting in break-ups

Avoiding Conflict is the Biggest Cause of Rage and Anger in a Relationship. As strange as this may sound,I have found working with my clients for the last 25 years that the number one cause of anger in a relationship is…. AVOIDING CONFLICT. This is so paradoxical because men and women…
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emotional affairs in the workplace,Coaching, Couples Therapy, EFT Therapy, Infidelity, Infidelity page, Relationship Therapy, Self-esteem

Affairs in the Workplace

Emotional Affairs in the Workplace I am having a large increase of couples coming into couples therapy to deal with an emotional affair.  I am seeing quite a few middle aged couples in which one of the spouses ends up starting emotional affairs in the workplace. Secret Emotional Affair The…
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IS EMDR BETTER THAN TALK THERAPY?

IS EMDR BETTER THAN TALK THERAPY? In a bid to zap her inner demons and reset her brain, Alix Strauss decided to try a radical form of treatment: EMDR therapy. This article displays a youthful account of a persons attempt to get over a breakup by using EMDR. Her therapist…
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Addictive Relationship,abusive relationships

Addictive Relationship

Are you in an Addictive Relationship? Are deeply unhappy in your relationship but yet you remain clinging to it? How can you tell whether your failure to leave the relationship is based on preference, commitment or if you are in a addictive relationship. To check if you are in an…
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borderline personality, borderline personality disorder, relationship, personality disorder, emotional abuse

Borderline Personality

People often come into therapy heartbroken because of the breakup they have had with a BP (Borderline Personality).  The flattery, attention and obsessiveness with which the BP treats their partner at first is exhilarating to the ego.  People get addicted to the feeling of exhilaration and power they feel at…
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emotionally abusive relationship,borderline personality disorder,emotionally abusive relationship,emotional abuse

Recover From Emotionally  abusive relationship

Recovering From Emotionally  abusive relationship often involves a person with Borderline Personality Disorder. Emotionally Abusive Relationships often are with a person who has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD).  The main characteristic of this kind of personality disorder is  that the person  becomes very controlling in an attempt to avoid being rejected.…
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