Failure to Launch- Plan Your Future
Many adult children are coming back home to live with their parents after college. Some do this on a temporary to set up their their next job or internship. Some, however fall into a comfort zone and loose their focus on their future. Beginning in the 20’s a child needs to thing about the future and strategies on what path to take for the rest of his life. Having a concept of the future is an important part of development as is taking risks. The failure to do this leads to low self esteem and sometimes depression. The longer it lasts the more hopeless your child may start to feel. What can parents to to help their adult child to launch ?
- Make some rules and requirements of your adult child, such as paying rent, having a job, contributing to a savings account, working out, helping with home duties.
- Help your adult child to resolve any emotional issues they may have. Psychotherapy that is goal oriented is often helpful.
- Forbid drugs and alcohol use while they are living with you. These things lower motivation and self esteem.
- Setting up structure with small achievable goals leads to feelings of mastery which naturally leads to more confidence in taking on new tasks and jobs
Above all, don’t feel guilty for making demands on your child because this will help him feel like he can succeed. focus
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